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10 Articles on Tips for Men – Part 2

Story 4: How to Boost your Confidence with women

FACT: All women love a man with confidence.

This just isn’t a human trait – nearly every species which participate in any sort of mating ritual, requires the successful mating male to be a confident one.

Consider the following: We think of lions and their giant mane of hair and ferocious roar; we see male peacocks and their beautiful feathers exploding behind them; or giant bull frogs and their audacious grunts at night – all exuding confidence. The males with the scariest roar, most beautiful feathers, and loudest grunts all seem to make out with the ladies, right? Take a lesson.

Simply put, every male, in order to be successful at mating, needs to exhibit a sense of confidence to the female.

Of course, as humans, we don’t grow giant antlers or horns, we don’t have big bright feathers, nor do we have a mating call, but we do have other things that display confidence – and we need to use them or exploit them for us to have sex – and lots of it!

So, how do you boost your confidence with women? How do you make them get wet with excitement when they hear your voice down the hall?

While this isn’t an article that is intended to solve your childhood insecurity issues, there are a few things that you can do that will boost your confidence today – which can lead to successful opportunities to engage and hopefully have sex with the women of your choice!

First, understand what women want: security and stability. If you have these two similar attributes in your personal life, then you have just shot to the top 20% of the males seeking mates. If you aren’t secure about who you are, and what good qualities you have, then how are you going to display any real confidence to approaching females?

The issues of security and confidence require constant attention and devotion to maintain – it usually takes some effort. Beyond that, there are other ways to make you feel good about yourself which will help invite more confidence within you:

  1. Clean yourself up. There’s nothing like a great haircut, a close, clean shave, and a hot shower. You feel good, fresh, and ready to conquer the world. A well kept man can say a lot to woman you meet. It means you value you who are.
  2. Know what you are good at. The world requires us to be generalists and to be good at everything. Don’t be. Take the things that interest you and be passionate about those things. If you invest in the things you love, you will display passion for them – and women just love passion. If you have passion about any subject, you become a leader in your field. And that’s what leads us to number three.
  3. Be passionate. Find the thing that makes you wake up in the morning! Invest in that every day! Your passion about your subject will be an automatic magnet for women. Women just love a man with passion. Why? It means you believe in something. You have dedicated yourself to something worthwhile. Women absolutely love this kind of commitment and leadership.
  4. Wisdom: Understanding that what separates you from the Brad Pitts of the world is not much. Did you know that humans and chimps are about 99.9% the same? Yes, but it’s that .01 % that matters most, right? Now, what does that mean the difference is between you and Brad Pitt? Not very much! In fact, you probably have more things in common than you realize.
  5. Be Unique. Many people want to fit in. Many people don’t want to stick out in the crowd. But that’s not going to be you. Dare to be different. Welcome diversity in your life – new blood, new friends, new ways of thinking and doing things. If the life you have been leading hasn’t working for you up to know, don’t you think it’s time to shake things up a bit?
  6. Your confidence comes from within. Your confidence isn’t determined by what people think of you or whether people accept you or not. After all, not everyone will like you. But then again, do you like everyone you meet? Probably not. So, get over it. You’re a great person and you don’t need someone who has never met or know anything about you, determine whether or not you deserve their attention.

Follow these principles, along with understanding what women want security, stability and you can work on increasing your confidence every day! Soon, women will be drawn to that magnetism – you just won’t know what to do with all of your new found opportunities!

Story 5: Six Secrets of Her Sexual Desire

You’ve heard of the old saying, “what goes up… must come down,” right? Well, with sexual desire, it’s no different.

The fact is that you will have “ebb and flows” to your level of sexual desire, and so will your lover. The trick is to be able to extend the times “you are up,” and limit the times you are “down.”

Here are five secrets of doing just that:

  1. Do the Dishes: Most researchers suggest that when women feel as though the chores are done – this allows their mind “the space” to think about sex. It also gives them a sense of “well-being” – as if things are being taken care of. And women love being taken care of. Wash the dishes, take out the trash, and clean the toilet. Do these mundane chores without her asking and you just carried a part of load off your lady’s back.
  2. Date Her: Establish a time and place to go on a date and work your way up to that date throughout the week. We know, you’re both busy, you both got responsibilities and obligations, and most likely if you’re like the rest of Americans, you are very close to burning-out. So whether you have been married for ten years or dating for eight months, set up that old-fashioned time and place and prepare for it. For example, let’s say you set up a date for this Saturday evening. Start texting her on Tuesday and tell her how beautiful she is and that you can’t wait for your time together. Leave her notes – in the bathroom or on her desk telling her that you’re excited to make love to her Saturday night. The sense of anticipation is completely seductive and will generate many rewards for you.
  3. Exercise together: You could play tennis, go swimming, jogging, or play volleyball. All the research suggests that active women have greater sexual function and experience greater sexual pleasure than women who don’t exercise. Make it a weekly date – and watch her temperature rise in bed!
  4. Be Touchy-Feely. Whether you live in tiny studio apartment together or a five bedroom ranch house, be close to her – and touch her while you are passing each other. If she is already cares for you, non-sexual touching is critical during the day and increases further sentiments of closeness and intimacy. Touching and stroking in a non-sexual way – even if slightly – heightens the pleasure when sex actually does occur.
  5. Tell her she is beautiful – every day. When she wakes up, when she is putting her make up on, when she is feeding the kids, doing the laundry, or reading on the sofa. Tell her she is beautiful and that you find her very sexy. Women have lots of issues with their body. Much research finds that body dissatisfaction, decreases a woman’s sex life. A simple word, a gesture, a touch, a note, and telling her that she is beautiful, can really turn her sexuality around in no time!

Sexual desire, especially great sexual desire, always begins beyond the bed sheets. If you want to turn up the heat in bed, then you will have to do some relatively simple, yet essential, things outside the bedroom. Follow these points consistently and no doubt, you will begin turning up the fire!


Story 6: Make Her Explode By Building Up Sexual Anticipation

 When a woman has an orgasm, it may feel like a powerful raging river of lust, love, and intimacy, all rolled up in one – rushing throughout her entire body.

But where does that raging orgasmic river start from?

The source of every woman’s orgasm is always found in her mind – always. In fact, most women who find it difficult to have an orgasm usually have some difficulty getting over this first major mental hurdle.

Some women have a hard time giving themselves permission to have an orgasm in the first place. After all, there are still a lot of hang ups in today’s society on a woman’s pressure to be virginal and sexy, motherly and horny – all at the same time! Research shows that these mixed feelings and expectations have very real and detrimental influence on a woman’s sexual psyche.

The good news is that we actually know where an orgasm starts. The bad news is, that most men don’t know.

Yet, if we pay careful attention, we can take simple steps to help her unlock the passion within her!

The first thing you must do is disarm her. Women, by nature, are always on guard or suspicious of men and their motives. Now, as a man, you don’t have to necessarily hide the fact that you want to have sex, it just doesn’t need to take center stage every single moment.

Rather, if you simply make take the emphasis off sex, you will instantly intrigue her interests, because 99% of heterosexual men she has met over the course of her life have and continue to want to get into her pants first.

So, how do you disarm her? Well, the first thing to do is stop looking at her tits. Next, be genuine in sharing your passions and you interests with her. If she knows that there is an authentic man behind that small erection, then she is most likely to lower her defenses.

Second, there are simple ways to flirt with her that is not overly flirtatious. Let her know that you find her attractive – without drooling on her. Here are two examples: Let’s say, she is showing you her pictures on Facebook. Let her know that she is “photogenic.” Say something like, “Everyone looks so happy in this picture, and you look pretty amazing in that dress too!” or “This is a great photo of you and your mom – you have such a great smile!”

Now, once you disarm her and she will begin to allow you to come close to her – physically. Provide a little anticipation with teasing. A woman likes a man that she can’t really have. That’s why many women love married men – they’re safe and they can’t have them – so consequently they are more desirable and valuable.

Set up a date for you guys to go out and then steadily build on the anticipation of the meeting. The anticipation creates tension, which will be released during orgasm.

If her guard is down with you, she has basically given you the keys to her sexuality and is waiting for you to do what you do best – satisfy her deepest desires. But you can’t just open the door to her house and run upstairs to her bed. She’ll snatch those key right back from you in a second! Rather, you need to explore her environment, appreciate the world she has created and is sharing with you.

Stroke her sense of being a woman – her hair, her laugh, her smell – do without too much sexual tension – that will soon come.

Call her during the week, share an interesting personal story, but before you tell her the ending – the climax – cut her off, and tell her that you got to run into a meeting and that you will finish up where you left off when you see her. Give her something to think about and that will make her want to seeing you again soon.

If you practice building anticipation, you will no doubt cause her to want you more as the hours and days pass – until you finally see each other. Remember the orgasmic rushing river you want her to have with you, always starts from a little spring deep within her mind. Impact her mind, and you will impact her orgasms!

End of Part 2. Coming soon, Part 3!

The Orgasm

Sex Toys for Men
An orgasm is a feeling of intense sexual pleasure that occurs during sexual activity. It is the climax of sexual excitement. The bodily changes following an orgasm are portrayed as increased heart rate, flushed appearance of skin, hormonal changes, a series of involuntary muscle contraction and ejaculation. There is an intense and explosive feeling of pleasure.

When you experience an orgasm, your breathing becomes fast and heavy and your toes may even curl. An orgasm is accompanied by the release of endorphins (opioid-like chemicals) produced in the brain that give a feeling of euphoria. Orgasm can be achieved by masturbation, penetrative sexual intercourse, outercourse (non-penetrative sex), and other erotic sexual activities. Masturbation may occur alone or with a partner.


For Male
The most common way of achieving orgasm is by the stimulation of the penis. He will experience rapid, rhythmic contractions of the urethra, the muscles at the base of the penis and the prostate. As ejaculation occurs, a series of four or five contractions are followed by pleasant sensations. After an orgasm the male goes through a refractory period. This is a short period after the nerve cell fires during which it cannot respond to additional stimulation. An orgasm cannot occur during the refractory period. For many men, the main source of orgasmic pleasure is a powerful ejaculation. However, ejaculation without orgasm is possible, as is having an orgasm without ejaculation.  


For Female
In females, there are at least two types of female orgasm.The most common way of achieving orgasm is by stimulation of the clitoris. The second starts in the clitoris and spreads down into the vagina. During an orgasm, her pulse raises, blood pressure and breathing increase and tension builds within her pelvis. There are rhythmic contractions of the pelvic muscle, vagina and uterus. A major difference between the female and the male orgasmic phase is that far more women than men have the physical capability to have one or more additional orgasms within a short time without dropping below the plateau of sexual arousal. Females do not have a refractory period. A woman may have more than one orgasm if she continues to be stimulated.

Types of Vibrators

There are many vibrators out there in the world. So how do you decide what to get? Since everyone is different, use this as a starting place to discover what works best with your spouse. There are a number of types to help you choose the right vibrator- whether you’re buying for yourself, your partner or for both of you to share.

Bullets & Eggs – Bullet vibrators are small, discreet and can be used all over the body, internally or externally. They are usually fairly powerful for their size and not expensive. They come in many various designs, range in speeds from single to multiple speeds and vibrating patterns. Bullets are also good for teasing, arousing, and pleasing the penis.

Pocket Rockets – Pocket Rocket is the best selling small clitoral vibrators on the market. They are mostly single speed vibrators that is small and battery operated, making it discreet and easy to use. Compare to the Bullet and Egg, Pocket Rocket is easier to manipulate and hold on to, especially if you are wet or slippery with lube. Pocket Rocket is a bit more expensive than the Bullet and Egg.

Magic Wands – These vibrators were originally marketed to be used to relieve back and neck pain but make incredible clitoral stimulators, a discovery that boosted sales of this kind of vibrator the world over. The Hitachi Magic Wand is one of the most powerful vibrator ever made, but it is often way too powerful for a first-time buyer. It is made of plastic and shaped to resemble a penis, that can stimulate the clitoris, and gives just enough girth for vaginal penetration.

Dual Action Vibrators / Rabbit-Style vibrators – The type of vibrator that can be used for both penetration and external stimulation are dual action vibrators which simultaneously manages to provide clitoral stimulation and vaginal penetration. These vibrators feature a vibrating dildo for penetration and clitoral stimulator (flickering rabbit ears) in one. They are much more sophisticated than clitoral-only vibrators and may be too advanced for a beginner.

G-spot Vibrators – G-spot Vibrators were designed to locate and stimulate ladies’ G-spot. G-spot Vibrators have a curved shape to stimulate the sensitive area on the front wall of the vagina. Many G-spot vibrators are anal safe, making them excellent vibrating anal toys for prostate pleasure. G-spot Vibrators often made of silicone, these vibrators have a crooked tip designed to hit the pleasure spot upon penetration, but call for a good amount of lube.

Love Rings / Vibrating Cock Rings – Love Rings or Vibrating Cock Rings are great for beginners who want to explore together. They are inexpensive, usually disposable, and can be a great addition to sex with a partner.   Vibrating Cock Rings can be worn at the base of the penis for hands-free clitoral stimulation during intercourse.
All New Romantic Toys for Couples

Newport Beach – California – United States

jetpack americaFor yourself, your family, or your friends, the best Newport Beach attractions are usually found in the water. Surfing, kayaking, stand up paddle boarding and body surfing are favorite year-round activities as the California beach destination enjoys gorgeous Mediterranean-like weather. Jetpack is the newest watersport and you must try it when you are at Newport Beach.

On the peninsula, there is the infamous spot called The Wedge. The Wedge stands out as one of the most powerful and awesome beaches to surf. Here is the place for you  to watch unbelievable boogie boarding, body surfing and board surfing with waves double overhead and sometimes larger.

Balboa Beach is one of the superb beaches in the Newport Beach area. The beach faces the Pacific Ocean, and is actually just a few blocks from the well known Balboa Fun Zone and the yacht harbor. Along Balboa Beach you’ll find a bike path and even places for bonfires. Bodyboarding is also great here, along with swimming. The Balboa Fun Zone is a great attraction as well, offering a ferris wheel, merry-go-round, bumper cars, and several shops and restaurants.  Located on the Balboa Peninsula, the Fun Zone is great for kids.

ExplorOcean, nation’s premiere ocean literacy center. Here is a place where children learn about the seven principles of ocean through hands-on activities using science, technology, engineering and math skills.  In the Ocean Literacy Center, people can build and pilot advanced underwater submarines in the boardwalk aquarium. They can also touch tide pool sea creatures like starfish and sea cucumbers.

Nearby, Fashion Island helps to provide shopping experiences for those who like to shop and splurge.  Fashion Island offers multiple top notch restaurants and all the snacks in between along with top of the line shopping.

Southern California has some of the best waters for whale-watching enthusiasts to explore. Both Newport Landing and Davey’s Locker offer daily guided whale watching tours by experienced professionals year-round. During your whale-watching cruise, learn fascinating details about California sea life and enjoy the Pacific Coast scenery. Don’t miss this chance to see giant blue, finback, grey, minke and humpback whales, along with other marine life like dolphins.

For many reasons, Newport Beach is very worthy of a visit or a vacation.  Even though it’s one of the undiscovered treasures of California, there is plenty to be found here.  If you’ve been looking for an area with lots of attractions, look for further than Newport Beach.

Rediscovering Water Melon

watermelon coupleAs per the latest research and published studies, water melon, the juiciest fruit has ingredients that deliver Viagra-like effects to the body’s blood vessels and may even increase libido. In fact, we’ve always known that watermelon is good for us, but the list of its very important health benefits grows longer with each study and research.

Sexual ingredients in water melon

Beneficial ingredients in watermelon and other fruits and vegetables are known as phytonutrients, naturally occurring compounds that are bioactive, or able to react with the human body to trigger healthy reactions. In watermelons, these include lycopene, beta carotene and the rising star among its phytonutrients, citrulline, whose beneficial functions are now being unraveled. It has the ability to relax blood vessels (especially those of penis) much like Viagra does.

Water melon – mode of action

While there are many psychological and physiological problems that can cause impotence, extra nitric oxide could help those who need increased blood flow, which would also help treat angina, high blood pressure and other cardiovascular problems.

When watermelon is consumed, citrulline is converted to arginine through certain enzymes. Arginine is an amino acid that works wonders on the heart and circulation system and maintains a good immune system. The citrulline-arginine relationship helps heart health, the immune system and may prove to be very helpful for those who suffer from obesity and type 2 diabetes. Arginine boosts nitric oxide, which relaxes blood vessels, the same basic effect that Viagra has, to treat erectile dysfunction and maybe even prevent it.

In short, consuming watermelon is a great way to relax blood vessels without any drug side-effects. Arginine also helps the urea cycle by removing ammonia and other toxic compounds from our bodies. Citrulline, the precursor to arginine, is found in higher concentrations in the rind of watermelons than the flesh. Having said that, we must also remember that it is not easy to consume or eat watermelon on daily basis and in every season and specially right before sex.

All about Zinc

An essential mineral for your reproductive health

Zinc is a mineral, a natural element, which is crucial in the production of testosterone and the zinc content of the prostate gland and sperm is higher than in any other part of the body. Therefore, a deficiency of zinc not just a causes sexual health problems, such as sperm abnormalities and prostate disease, but it is also needed for all round wellness of your whole body and general health.

Dietary sources of Zinc

Lean red meat, whole-grain cereals, pulses, and legumes provide the highest concentrations of zinc: concentrations in such foods are generally in the range of raw weight. Processed cereals with low extraction rates, polished rice, and chicken, pork or meat with high fat content have moderate zinc content. Fish, roots and tubers, green leafy vegetables, and fruits are only modest sources of zinc. Saturated fats and oils, sugar, and alcohol have very low zinc contents.

Dietary Zinc & general body health

Zinc is an essential element in our diet, but too little can be harmful. Without enough dietary intake, people can experience a loss of appetite, decreased sense of taste and smell, decreased immune function, slow healing of wounds, and skin sores. Zinc deficiency may increase the toxic effects of arsenic, copper, cadmium and lead; thus an adequate amount of zinc can be considered protective against the toxicity of these elements.

Dietary Zinc & penis health

Zinc is present in all body tissues and fluids including penile tissues and semen. Too little zinc can also result in poorly developed sex organs and retarded growth in young men. In addition, Zinc depletion can also cause erectile dysfunction or male impotence. Zinc is also crucial for sperm production and quality. Zinc helps guarantee that the genetic material you are passing along is stable and of good quality. As for penis growth, it has been shown that Zinc plays a crucial role in the process of protein synthesis and cellular growth of the penis. Therefore, proper supply of zinc results in increase in thickness and length of the penis.

Finally, while it is always good to obtain zinc from natural sources, many men find it difficult and expensive to consume zinc on daily basis and in sufficient quantity from dietary sources.

10 Stories on Tips for Men – Part 1

Story 1:

Four Things that You Should Not do in Bed with your Woman

Congratulations, you were able to get your woman into bed! Things are looking good for you, right? That is, until you blow it!

You would actually be surprised about how many men do everything right to sack their women into bed, only to flounder at the very last second and end up with a giant case of blue balls.

So, we decided to put together a list of four things for you not to do just as heaven’s gates are about to open!

  1. Don’t Ever Bring Up Your Ex – Not Ever. This is the ultimate cock blocker. It doesn’t matter if your current girl is in an entirely different league than your last girl. The simple truth is that if you bring the topic of your Ex in bed, your current girl will think that you are thinking about your past sex partners just as she is about to share her most beautiful gift with you! If you want to compliment her, don’t do it by comparing her features or personality traits with some other chick you used to bang. For example: “You have nicer boobs than my Ex,” simply will not do. In fact, bringing up your ex-girlfriend at the most intimate time, could not only damage your chances with having great sex, but it could also cause your girl to have lingering thoughts about whether or not you are still pining after your ex-girlfriend.
  2. Don’t Show Your Insecurity. Okay, so you might have a few inches to lose around the waist and your man boobs are just too much for most women to bare, but don’t show you’re insecurity here. After all, you did get your lady to hop into bed with you for obviously other substantial reasons that don’t have much to do with your body. Most likely, she was attracted to your charm, your wit, and your confidence. Throwing out those very sexy features about you literally leaves her with nothing but your hairy love handles to grab. Instead, make your features work for you. Rather, say: “Come to Papa” or “There’s a whole Lotta Man here for you!” Remember, it’s all about confidence, which is the sexiest and perhaps the biggest attribute you got in your pocket – don’t throw it away.
  3. Don’t Treat Her Like A Guy: Yes, your girl might be cool with your guy antics, but not in bed – that’s a whole different world from your grease-stained-cigar smelling-man-sofa. Don’t fart, burp, or scratch your balls while you’re going for broke. These are huge turn-offs to any woman with a little class and sophistication. Even if she laughs at these juvenile antics, what she’s really thinking is, “My God, how did I end up here with this guy?” If you have to relieve yourself in any way, then quickly excuse yourself from the room and go to the bathroom.
  4. Hygiene is Essential. The difference between getting laid and jumping fast out of bed with blue balls could essentially come down to your hygiene. This is a critical subject for couples. Most men smell. We work out, we play sports, and we wear the same shirt three days in a row (well, some of us anyway). That’s all fine and dandy when you’re with your guy friends on a camping trip, but not when you’re on your girl’s new silky-satin sheets that she recently sprayed with her lavender aromatherapy. Most women, whether they realize it or not, get turned on by their partner’s smell. So you have to keep things clean, especially around your “amigo”. You might also consider shaving or at the very least, trimming your pubic hair since hairs are “Odor Factories.” The surface of you pubic hair is especially ripe for funky bacteria to release their stinky flatulence, causing you to reek.

Remember, not doing certain things is just as important as what you do. With these four items out of the way, you will be ready to make her feel incredible. Now go on, have fun.
Story 2:
Lasting Ideas on How to Satisfy Your Woman through Anchors

So, you think you know how to satisfy your woman?

Well, if you’re like most men, than you’re probably thinking that there isn’t much left to learn in the world of female satisfaction. Interestingly, survey after survey suggests otherwise – In fact, many women still continue to fake their orgasms, as well as a significant percentage of them remain “not as satisfied” with their sex life, when comparing sex with their past lovers. That means that most of the time, they think someone in their past was a lot better or even bigger than you!

Being “good enough” in sports or math is acceptable. When it comes to sex, however, the place you don’t want to be in your lover’s mind is simply, “good enough” or “average.” If that’s where you think you are, don’t worry, because there are some very simple things that you can do to change the game – starting today!

To be better than average, you must learn to develop what are called “love anchors.” What are love anchors, you ask? Well, dear boy, love anchors are what forever will separate you among your lover’s past exploits. Anchors are what will make her wish for you when you are not around. Anchors will be the things that she fantasizes about when she is making love to her husband and wishing she was with you instead.

Let us begin.

Anchors are “sticking points” that are sealed with emotion, creativity, and sexual tension with something that is familiar to her. They are specific and isolated moments or sensations that are specifically “anchored” to one of your lover’s six senses with something that is grounded in her day to day life.

Yes, that’s right – six senses. Let’s review: humans have five normal senses of sight, touch, taste, hearing, and smell. Senses are “lenses” by which we “sense” what is going on around us and what is happening to us.

Women, on the other hand, have one more sense – that is their sense of “romance and imagination.” Ask any woman, what she is doing when she meets a man that she likes, and she will not readily admit the truth: she is placing him in imaginary roles – father, lover, friend, or door mat.

So, you’re job is to develop anchors (one or more) in each of the six categories to ensure your place in the lover’s role! For you novices, try to do this with just one of the six “senses” at a time.

I will repeat: an anchor is an extremely memorable moment that is sealed with emotion, creativity, and sexual tension that you share with your lover and connect it with something that is already familiar to her.

Now remember, these anchors don’t always have to be erotic – they can be fun too.

Let me give you one example: My ex-girlfriend lives in a great apartment on a beautiful street, lined with great trees. She loves those trees. So, after one evening together – being a little tipsy from a great time out – we decided to walk back to her place. As we walked home, I made it a point to stop at every single tree and kiss her.

Some kisses were passionate, others were cute pecks on the cheek or neck, and others were a kisses were light on the back of the hand as I squatted on a bent knee.

During the slow walk back to her place, we created incredible sexual tension at each of these trees. By the time we got home, she was ready to pounce on me and roar! And roar is what she did, boys.

The next day, she couldn’t stop texting me about how much she loved the evening and that how much she enjoyed kissing at every tree on her side of the street! I must admit, it was pretty fun.

Now, a couple of years have passed, but every time she thinks about those trees on her block, every time she comes home from a long day, every time she leaves for work, who do you think she be thinking about? What will she be thinking about? That’s right boys, me.

In fact, even though we had an amicable split, she often sends me messages or emails telling me that she is thinking about the night we kissed at every tree, or how much those trees remind her of me and that wonderful evening several summers ago – and she sends me these messages even though she is now engaged to someone else! That is an example of an anchor. I anchored those familiar trees she sees every day with a great sexual experience that began long before we jumped into bed.

Story 3

Common reasons for boredom in bedroom what to do about them
Are you bored with your sex life? Well, if you care to admit that you might be in a relationship in which the fire has started to dwindle a bit, you are not alone.

It happens to everyone and in every relationship.

In fact, a good way to look at your sex life is comparing it to a campfire. Once the fire gets going, it’s just a matter of time before you see the flames climb high into the night’s sky.

But then, as with every roaring fire, the flames burn down a bit and, if there aren’t any more logs thrown into the fire, all that will be left is just a hot bed of red coals! The trick is to keep putting fuel on those red coals before the fire goes out completely.

So, how do you feed that fire? After all, you really do wish you could get that “old spark” back and have the kind of great sex you used to, right?

Sexual boredom can occur in any relationship after the first initial excitement of being together wears off. After all, you and your lover may come home from a long day at work, looking pretty tired, and the last thing on your mind might be jumping on the kitchen table to get it on, right? She may have forgotten to shave for the last two weeks and she doesn’t look as sexy as she once did – we have all been there. And of course, you’re not helping matters either by walking around, scratching you backside with your old boxers on.

Meanwhile, those hot coals in the fire pit are nearly gone.

So what do you do? Do you throw the giant log into the fire, hoping that it catches on fire again?

Most likely, what the only thing the log will do is put the fire out of its misery – forever. Why is that? Because the bigger the log, the bigger the expectations. And when our expectations are dashed, we tend to give up or get angry and walk away.

Instead, take simple and small steps to get your love back on track.

Your sex life reflects your life in general. If you are stressed, ill, or bored with your life, usually those same feelings transfer over to your sex life too. Your sex life is simply a mirror to what you are experiencing at the moment.

So what’s the answer to sexual boredom? To bring the fire back into the bedroom, you have to bring excitement to your life outside the bedroom first!

Here are a few tips:

  1. Clean out the clutter – your room, your car, and your life. Get rid of all the things that weigh you down, spiritually, emotionally or visually. This is like removing all the useless ash from your fire pit. The more ash you get rid of, the more room you will have to be you.
  2. Start exercising – This gets the juices flowing in every part of your body including your privates. If you’re not the “gym” type, take walks after dinner or go for a bike ride. Just get off your ass and start moving!
  3. Feed your creativity – Go to a theatrical play, an art show, or a music concert. The passion that comes from the art you experience can transcend to your mind, attitude, and ultimately your sex life!
  4. Communicate – Many times, you will find that your love life directly correlates with the type of communication you and your partner are experiencing. Doing the above mentioned things will help with communication. It’s easier to talk about art, music, or your health to help get you back on track. You will find that those little sparks will also help you talk about the bills being due, when you need to pick up the kids, or what chores need to be done.
  5. Bring her small gifts – The act of generosity can unlock a lot of past hang-ups, including resentments, frustrations, and annoyances that may exist between the two of you. Start small with gifts such as flowers, scarves, and coupons for getting her nails done. All these things make her feel special and provide you the feeling that you are doing a good job taking care of her!
  6. Increase Your Confidence – Women love a man with confidence. Perhaps you need an extra nudge to get the fire going. Perhaps, you want show her that you’re as sexual as ever!

Sexual excitement always begins before entering the bedroom. If you remember to slowly feed your fire, soon those small gestures will ignite into a small but powerful fire with tremendous potential. In no time at all, you will be ready to put that big log back in the fire bit and see the flames, once again, fill the night sky.

End of Part 1. Stay tuned for Part 2!

Can Weight Loss Hypnosis Help You?

One of the hottest trends going around right now is that of weight loss hypnosis. People who have tried to diet before in the past and failed miserably are now giving this trend a try, hoping that it may hold the key that unlocks them to greater success.

But, will it really work? Is it the answer to your prayers?

There are a few things that you must understand first before you make an informed decision.

Let’s go over what you need to know.

You Must Be Suggestive

The very first thing that you must remember is the fact that in order for weight loss hypnotherapy to work, you do need to be suggestive.

Those who are easily moved into a suggestive state will be able to be hypnotized fairly readily, while those who can’t, won’t.

It’s really as simple as that. Some people are great with hypnosis, but for others, the effects aren’t going to have that much of an influence on them. Of course, this does in part depend on the skill of the hypnotist that you’re working with, but keep in mind that some people will just find it naturally works better for them.

It may be worth your while to be hypnotized for something relatively minor (such as for entertainment purposes) first to see how suggestive you really are.

You Will Still Have To Work

Second, it’s important that you do remember that just because you are hypnotized, this does not mean you won’t have to do some work.

You’re still going to have to put in effort to eat properly an exercise regularly. It won’t take away from that so for those who hope this is some magic cure that means they will no longer have to even try and weight loss will just come right off, they are in for disappointment.

You do still have to put in effort to see results. Failing to believe that is setting yourself up to fail.

You May Need Repeat Sessions 

Finally, the last thing that you’ll want to keep in mind if you’re considering using hypnosis as a method of losing weight is the fact that you may need to get repeated sessions with the hypnotist.

Some people view it as a one-shot cure-all. They go once and magically, they are no longer doing behaviors that prevent weight gain from occurring.

While in a few cases it may be this simple, in most, it’s more complex than that. Especially if your habits have been highly ingrained in you for years, you may require multiple sessions on an ongoing basis until you finally reach your goal weight.

And even then, you may still require occasional check-ups to ensure it doesn’t become a problem again.

So if you’re going to consider it, just be sure that you are open to the idea that it could be a long term endeavor.

So there you have the facts to know about this rising trend in weight loss. If you’re really struggling, it may just be the thing to help you out.

The Meaning of Rose Colors

fresh rosesBecause the rose is such a willing participant in love’s many escapades, different colors and varieties have taken on symbolic meanings. When you choose a color, variety or number of roses for someone, you are personalizing your gift with deeper sentiment. Regardless of color, their unique beauty and subtle fragrance convey a message guaranteed to elicit delight from the recipient and envy from others.

Red: Love and Romance
One of the most universal of all symbols, the red rose represents true love. It has also appeared throughout history and across cultures as both a political and religious symbol.

Yellow: Friendship, Joy, Get Well
While in Victorian times, the yellow rose symbolized jealousy, today it represents friendship, joy and caring. A bouquet of these sun-filled blossoms conveys warmth, gladness and affection. Yellow roses send a message of appreciation and platonic love without the romantic subtext of other colors. The color represents feelings of joy and delight.

Lavender: Enchantment, Majesty, Love at First Sight
The color purple has a traditional association with royalty. In this regard, shades of lavender roses suggest an air of regal majesty and splendor.

Pink: Love, Gratitude, Appreciation
Pink carries with it the connotation of grace and elegance, as well as sweetness and poetic romance. A deep pink conveys gratitude and appreciation, while pale shades connote grace and gentleness, admiration and happiness.

White: Purity, Innocence, Sympathy, Spirituality
Also known as the bridal rose, the white rose is a traditional wedding flower. White flowers are generally associated with new beginnings and make an ideal accompaniment to a first-time bride walking down the aisle. Early tradition used white roses as a symbol for true love, an association which would later become the hallmark of the red rose. White flowers can be used to convey sympathy or humility. They are associated with honor and reverence, which makes them a fitting memorial for a departed loved one.

Peach: Sincerity, Gratitude and Appreciation
Delicate and beautiful peach roses send a message of sensitivity. The soft, pastel color of peach roses is comforting and soothing. A bouquet of peach roses shows your deep appreciation and gratitude or just an elegant way to say “Thank You!”

Orange: Desire, Enthusiasm and Passion
With their warm, vibrant tones, orange roses symbolize enthusiasm and desire. They can be an expression of fascination, or a gift to say ‘I’m proud of you.

Green: Renewal
Green is the color of life, abundant growth, and constant renewal of life and energy. The green rose signifies the constant rejuvenation of spirit, and is therefore a messenger of cheerfulness.Green roses can symbolize best wishes for a prosperous new life or wishes for recovery of good health.

Black: Farewell, and Death
Black is the color of death and farewell. A black rose, like the blue rose remains elusive. What we know as black roses are actually really dark red roses. Black roses convey the death of a feeling or idea. Sending black roses to someone indicates the death of the relationship.

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